GIRL and GIRL - MISSION IMPOSSIBLE!

Things are getting difficult for me, with nine posts in the bank there is an expectancy (I assume:P) for what I write and on what I write. Each time I do a mini research to bring up with crazy, fancy ideas and let my ultra-crazy mind present it, I swear that I don’t disturb it when it works. I try to put up my best here but success and failure are in thy hands!

For long and so long this thought has been in my mind, the disparity in friendships. If not Anantha Vikatan, It would have been difficult for me to get this thought into my head by this time, thanks a lot AV. Back to the pavilion, what I say is, if I say anything at all, there is a wide canyon in alliance between boys and bond between girls.

You don’t need a Sherlock to track down this difference. Every reader who peeps through this post will know what i mean. Right from my kindergarten to BE I have been disappointed with the way relationships are handled by the girls/ladies (na avangalukula than solren!). To be straight through the drafter- friendship between two girls is prone to wreck at any moment due to any ridiculous reasons.

First point that had landed safely in my mind is the life time of relationship between two girls, Will it last a year? Two years? I don’t blame but majority lands between this time line. Of course there are exceptions, but those exceptions are as erratic as I read for internals one week early. Next point which doses my mind is why there is an abrupt end for their friendship? EGO’s one of a concrete reasons which you can’t say no no. It will go super cool till any internals/semester/annuals pop up, suddenly it will take a sharp turn, when we use a spectrometer to analyze it wouldn’t be a tricky task to infer that the first missile to destruct their bond is marks! Whoa even one mark and two marks could tamper their friendship will Reflect the strength of the bond. “She leads by one mark because she didn’t give the notes when I asked for it”, “She is the topper because she patrionized the respective staff”, She this, she that, GOD knows where they can find this-that reasons. Whatever the reason is but the one big reason for the tampering is marks. I don’t say that marks are the only reason but it is the one big reason.

I don’t blame everyone; there are people who couldn’t establish their time line due to unavoidable reasons. The fault is with the society. Imagine, Once a girl finishes her studies and gets married (after job or before job is ‘?’) she loses her contact with her schoolmate/college mate/job mate, contact doesn’t mean saving their mobile no with an ugly smiling picture as the contact picture. In touch means to talk with friends when they feel like talking, whenever they feel like talking!, meet or arrange a getto, anything! But is this all possible in the real life scenario? You know what? Guys enjoy all kind of the above mentioned luxury, wherein girls? They aren’t the species who are meant to enjoy the only feel-jealous. After marriage a guy can go for a week long hangover with his school friends but is the same possible for a girl? How many kinfolks will allow such trips?

These reasons doesn’t prove that the girls are entirely guilt free. A girl trusts a guy and can be friendlier with that guy than what she is capable with another girl (oru pennin opudhal vaakumoolam). I’m not a type of person who generalizes things but nearly 85% of girls will agree that point. Where is the logic behind this, girls? ‘Girls don’t feel secured with another girl’. A general concept; Girls are independent (in attitude). A shocking concept; a girl hate another independent girl. So the Inference? Girls hate each other. No No, girls who read this don’t throw a disgust look on the writer of this post (obvious ME), No other conclusion can be drawn from that fact (aazhlndhu yosikavum).

When a group of guys set out for a hotel or bakery or motel or anywhere they can eat anything other than shit, I bet none of the person in that gang will know how much each contributed (Or how much they swallowed from the plates of their pity neighbor :P ). They will never bother how much they ate and how much they spent. They never regret for spending for friends or spending on besties. This is one of the proud factors for which one longs to be a guy. This will automatically induce the intimacy, this shows that who we are.

Apadiyae the scene shifts to girls

Best accountants in the world, they are known for, for what they spend every penny, this is not wrong but this habit wont earn a long term friendship. A penny spent by them is expected to be gained few days later. May be they have logical reasons, when they are students they will say that the money they spent is from the pockets of their papa or mama but when they earn they do the same. I don’t say that girls are kanjoos, I say that girls maintain accounts for what they spend on their friend (friend who is a girl- the point which must be high lightened) Girls are totally normal if their friend is a guy (I say a boy as a friend not a ‘boyfriend’ :P )

The only notable girl-girl friendship is between our honorable Amma and her dhosth chinnama. I find no other so catchy and famous friendship among girls in prehistoric or medieval or modern era.

A girl and a girl who stays in a same room in a hostel for their entire period of graduation fails to maintain a strong bond or the bond which they have created for the entire period of graduation will get broken suddenly for not any notable reasons. This will not provide any honor to their friendship.

A girl will never share her problems (any kind!) her success (Aha! They think it will induce jealous and the person in the receiving end of the sharing will ‘steal their chances’ ( kannupotruvanglama) ), her failure ( not to mention) or any other reason (ellathayum vitralam but samy!!! oru ponnu love panni athu break up agi mudichalum ava friend ku theriyadhu! Girls please learn how to share your love stories with friends from boys :P )

The mystery point is. when a girl can be a sweet and warm friend to a boy, why can’t she be the same with another girl? (Even if that is possible initially, the horrible reality is that won’t long much long)

In this era of insecurity for girls, it’s the integrity which matters but they the lack in the very same band. Girls; Unless you drag the trust in and form an indestructible mental fort, there will be overpowering Y chromo charged people and you will complain for chauvinism!